Longest day Of QB ever....

Can u really imagine hw long i was together with all d Quan Bian MTs and seniors??

our workshop was suppose 2 start at 3pm..
n i rush bac frm USJ jz for tis Quan Bian workshop & meeting that cause me x jadi bac to my home sweet home...

started at 4pm..
the workshop was kinda relaxing..
hehe..
every1 doin our own stuff..
thn blow water for a while..
thn cont our work...
thn shouting for dinner..
n of cz..curi some time for fb too..hehe...
it was actually quite fun to see every1 is there for an event..
it really brings up my semangat..

and...
finally..after almost dragging for more thn 1 hour..
we decided to use the coupons that Auntie Soo gave me..
n settle our dinner at BBQ chicken....

BBQ chicken at Jaya One..^^

it was my 1st time dining there...
n..
it's consider cheap v the buy one free one coupon...haha...
on average it cost each of us more a less RM10 per person..
n guess what?
what really shock us was Xin Xin paid for our bill!!
RM96 for 9 ppl's dinner..

i guess its quite cheap huh??
n..
i strongly recommend the dish i took...

Jerk BBQ

Yummy yummy^^

After dinner..
we went for Secret Recipe..Another nice coming Supper..
LOL...Yi Fan paid for this..
i wonder r those quan bian ex-seniors r loaded??
they r so generous to belanja us nice food...
n even such expensive SUPPER...lol....

bt....this supper is a trailer of telling us tis Meeting will not end SoooOoo LATE..
it will be ending vy "early"..in the morning next day...LOL

n...
we started our meeting...
long..bored meeting...
while some1 is back2 his hometown n enjoying his quality time v his friends with some wine...haha..

the meeting was actually quite useful to me..
at least it really push me 2 start my job...
LOL..
n added my workload...
bt....i'm getting more semangat to work in tis..
n there's another 20+ days for me to Tahan...hehe...

Meeting was stop half way...
we r x allowed 2 b in d tutor room after 12am..
especially during tis critical time..
haha..

so...
we had a break at around 1.30am..
n enjoy the SUPPER from secret recipe...

Different type of cakes such as : Chocolate Banana, New York Cheese, Blueberry Cheese Cake, Chocolate Indulgence, and dunno wat ady...

I din take those v Chocolate...but..i really enjoy the one with Cheese...
(yaya...i know u all sure will say its soOoo fattening eating cheese especially at that time...after 1am!!yet..i stil cant control my mouth...hahah)

Okie Dokie...
Meeting is continued..
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and it finally ENDED at 4.15am?x so sure..haha...at least we r in time for CURRY WANTAN MEE...hhehe....
every1 was so blur and tired that time after mmeeting..
n i was jz sitting down there looking at Bong Jie n Xue Fei's discussion becoming more and more aggressive..both r blur n x und wat r both talking about...n nearly quarrel..

n it came to a conclusion: never ever cont discussion after almost 6 hours of meeting and half day of workshop..ur brain cant digest anymore..haha..

ya...On Our way to CurrY WanTan Mee at Paramouth....this time its on MC..haha..

And it as our "closing ceremony" of the lOng Long QB workshop...^^

1.不要为了寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，到最后你怎么办？
　　
2.不要为了负责而去结婚。要知道，不爱对方却和对方结婚是最不负责的。即使当时让对方很伤心，但是总比让他几年甚至一辈子伤心强

3.不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎么催，都不要随便对待婚姻，婚姻不是打牌，重新洗牌要付出巨大代价。　　

4.感情的事基本上没有谁对谁错，他（她）要离开你，总是你有什么地方不能令他满足，回头想想过去在一起的日子，总是美好的。当然，卑劣的感情骗子也有，他们的花言巧语完全是为了骗取对方和自己上床，这样的人还是极少数。　　

5.和一个生活习惯有很多差异的人恋爱不要紧，结婚要慎重，想想你是否可以长久忍受彼此的不同。　　

6.有人说恋爱要找自己喜欢的人，结婚要找喜欢自己的人，都是片面的。恋人不喜欢自己有什么可恋的？老婆自己不喜欢怎么过一辈子？　　

7.真爱一个人，就要尽量让他开心，他开心了你就会开心，那么双方就有激情了。　　

8.在要求对方必须是处女的时候，想想自己是不是处男，如果是，你可以，如果不是，你凭什么？　　

9.不要随便和别人上床，否则将来遇到一个真爱但他洁身自好有原则的男人，你会后悔当年的所做所为。　　

10.不要因为自己长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算，长相只是一时的印象，真正决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。我见过的帅哥配丑女，丑女配帅哥的太多了。　　

11.女人要学会扮靓自己，不要拿朴素来做挡箭牌，不要拿家务做借口，不懂时尚，你就不是一个完整的女人。　　

12.恋爱的时间能长尽量长。这至少有两点好处：一，充分，尽可能长的享受恋爱的愉悦，婚姻和恋爱的感觉是很不同的。二，两人相处时间越长，越能检验彼此是否真心，越能看出两人性格是否合得来。这样婚后的感情就会牢固得多。　　

13.男人不坏，女人不爱，这坏不是指心肠狠毒，自私无情什么的。而是指油嘴滑舌，花言巧语。一般的好男人以为说情话是油嘴滑舌，轻浮肉麻的表现，所以不愿去做。对别人这样说是不对，可是对自己老婆，就要油嘴滑舌一点。为什么不能做个心好嘴滑的男人呢？　　

14.离婚率高至少反映了好坏不同的两点：好的一点是人们的观念已经趋向人性化，不再为封建思想而禁锢自己，坏的一点是对于婚姻的轻率。没想好结什么婚？　　

15.都说婚姻是爱情的坟墓，那是因为婚前已经往去坟墓的路上走着。就算不结婚也会在坟墓前分手。为什么不先分手就一头钻进坟墓呢？　　

16.只会读书的女人是一本字典，再好人们也只会在需要的时候去翻看一下，只会扮靓的女人只是一具花瓶，看久了也就那样。服饰美容是做好一个女人的必要条件，不是充要条件。你还需要多看书。这样你会发现生活更加美好。　　

17.平平淡淡才是真，没错，可那应该是激情过后的平淡，然后再起激情，再有平淡。激情平淡应呈波浪形交替出现。光有平淡无激情的生活有什么意思？只要你真心爱他，到死你也会有激情的。　　

18.你爱他吗？爱就告诉他，何必把思念之苦藏在心底深处。怕样子，地位，身份不相配？别怕，爱一个人是美好的。　　

19.老婆和老妈掉进了河里，我先救老妈，因为是老妈给了我生命，我找不到任何理由丢下她不管。老婆如果没救上来，我可以再给她陪葬，在墓里继续我们的爱情。　　

20.草率地结了婚已经是错了，再也不要草率地去离婚。先试试看，真的不行再离也不迟。　　

21.经常听说男人味女人味，你知道男人味是一种什么味道，女人味又是一种什么味道吗？男人味就是豁达勇敢，女人味就是温柔体贴。　　

22.魅力是什么？魅力不是漂亮，漂亮的女人不一定能吸引我，端庄幽雅的女人我才喜欢。所以你不用担心自己不够漂亮。　　

23.初恋都让人难忘，觉得美好。为什么？不是因为他（她）很漂亮或很帅，也不是因为得不到的就是好的，而是因为人初涉爱河时心里异常纯真，绝无私心杂念，只知道倾己所有去爱对方。而以后的爱情都没有这么纯洁无瑕了。纯真是人世间最为可贵的东西。我们渴求的就是她。　　

24.初恋的人大多都不懂爱，所以初恋失败的多。成功的少。结婚应该找个未婚的，因为谁都喜欢原装。而恋爱，还是找个恋爱过的人才好。因为经历过恋爱的人才知道什么是爱，怎么去爱。　

25.男人有钱就变坏，是的，很多男人这样，不过，一有钱就变坏的男人就算没钱，也好不到哪里去。　　

26.一个男人能不能给你安全感，完全不取决于他的身高，而取决于他的心高。高大而窝囊的男人我见过不少。矮小而昂扬的男人我也见过。一个男人要心高气傲，这样才像男人。当然，前提是要有才华。　　

27.天长地久有没有？当然有！为什么大多数人不相信有？因为他们没有找到人生旅途中最适合自己的那一个。也就是冥冥中注定的那一个。为什么找不到？茫茫人海，人生如露，要找到最合适自己的那一个谈何容易？你或许可以在40岁时找到上天注定的那一个，可是你能等到40岁吗？在20多岁时找不到，却不得不结婚，在三四十岁时找到却不得不放弃。这就是人生的悲哀。　　

28.为什么生活中很少见到传说中天长地久，可歌可泣的爱情故事？因为这样的感情非常可贵，可贵的东西是那么好见到的吗？金子钻石容易见到吗？　　

29.恋爱时感性点，过日子理性点，穿衣服性感点。　　

30.性感是什么？坦胸露乳么？那路边没穿衣服的女丐性感不？性感不是仅仅指衣服穿得少，而是该种性别焕发出来的与另一种性别迥然不同的特质。一个衣着讲究，端庄优雅的女人我一样觉得很性感。　　

31.一般的男人穿西服喜欢衬衣上系条领带，束得紧紧的，我却喜欢不系领带，敞开最上的扣子，我觉得这样更性感。　　

32.从前失恋之时，我都会恨她，恨她为什么这么薄情寡义，听到有关她的不好的消息，我都会偷着乐，现在不了，现在即使失去她，我也会祝福她，衷心希望她能过得很好。她过得不好我会很难过。这也是喜欢和爱的一个区别。　　

33.和聪明的人恋爱会很快乐，因为他们幽默，会说话，但也时时存在着危机，因为这样的人很容易变心。和老实的人恋爱会很放心，但生活却也非常得乏味。　　

34.女人不要太好强，有的女人自尊心过强。是别人的错她态度很强硬，是自己的错她同样态度很强硬。她总以为去求别人是下*的表现，她是永远不会求男人的。这样的女人很令人头疼。聪明的女人会知道什么时候该坚强，什么时候该示弱。好强应该对外人，对爱的人这么好强你还要不要他呵护你啊？　　

35.有的女人恋爱时让男友宠着自己，结婚后仍然要老公百般宠着自己，却忘记做为一个女人应该做的份内之事。这样的女人是不懂得爱情的。　　

36.要看一个人有没有内涵，内看谈吐，外看着装。还可以看写字。谈吐可以看出一个人的学识和修养。着装可以看出一个人的品位，写字可以看出一个人的性格。　　

37.想知道一个人爱不爱你，就看他和你在一起有没有活力，开不开心，有就是爱，没有就是不爱。　　

38.有的人老是抱怨找不好人，一两次不要紧，多了就有问题了，首先你要检讨自己本身有没有问题，如果没有，那你就要审视一下自己的眼光了，为什么每次坏人总被你碰到？　　

39.有人说男人一旦变心，九头牛也拉不回，难道女人变心，九头牛就拉得回来吗？男女之间只在生理上有差异，心理方面大同小异。　　

40.爱情与人品没多大关系，从前有个女同事跟我说她喜欢射雕里的杨康，不喜欢郭靖，我很惊奇，爱坏厌好？后来想想，也没什么，杨康认贼作父，卖国求荣是不对。可他对爱情却很执着，这样的人为什么不能享有爱？现实生活也有这样的例子，古惑仔也有古惑仔的爱情。

41.有人说没有面包的爱情终究会夭折。我说说这话的人不懂什么是爱情。从前恋爱我很反感别人说女方这条件好那条件好。我不管你什么出身，什么学历，什么地位，如果我爱你，你擦皮鞋甚至做*女我也无所谓。大人说我幼稚，没有钱怎么过日子？我说有钱没爱过的是什么日子？和自己爱的人在一起，喝水吃腌菜我也是高兴的。　　

42.如果真爱一个人，就会心甘情愿为他而改变。如果一个人在你面前我行我素，置你不喜欢的行为而不顾，那么他就是不爱你。所以如果你不够关心他或是他不够关心你，那么你就不爱他或他不爱你，而不要以为是自己本来就很粗心或相信他是一个粗心的人。遇见自己真爱的人，懦夫也会变勇敢，同理，粗心鬼也会变得细心。　　

43.彼此都有意而不说出来是爱情的最高境界。因为这个时候两人都在尽情的享受媚眼，尽情的享受目光相对时的火热心理，尽情的享受手指相碰时的惊心动魄。一旦说出来，味道会淡许多，因为两人同意以后，所有的行为都是已被许可，已有心理准备的了，到最后渐渐会变得麻木。　　

44.一个萝卜一个坑，说的是婚姻情况。事实上对于爱情来说，是不成立的，优秀的人，不管男女，都会是一个萝卜好几个坑。所以这个世界天天上演着悲欢离合的故事。　　

45.幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题，成熟的人和成熟的人在一起也没什么问题，成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。　　

46.有两种女人很可爱，一种是妈妈型的，很体贴人，很会照顾人，会把男人照顾的非常周到。和这样的女人在一起，会感觉到强烈的被爱。还有一种是妹妹型的。很胆小，很害羞，非常的依赖男人，和这样的女人在一起，会激发自己男人的个性的显现。比如打老鼠扛重物什么的。会常常想到去保护自己的小女人。还有一种女人既不知道关心体贴人，又从不向男人低头示弱，这样的女人最让男人无可奈何。　　

47.有外遇并非坏男人的专利，好男人一样有，所以当你遇到这样的男人时，不要一棍子打死，可以试着给一次机会，能改还是可以在一起的。几十年的感情不容易，对于男人的偶尔出轨，有时候不必看得过重。　　

48.吝啬是男人的大忌，就算穷也不要做出一副穷样。有人抱怨女人只爱男人的钱，其实也并不一定就是这样，有的女人喜欢男人为她花钱，有时候也是为了证实自己在男人心目中的位置，男人如果喜欢一个女人，一定愿意为她花钱的。　　

49.男女搭配，干活不累。因为在异性面前，男人总喜欢表现自己很男人的一面。这样也才像个男人，所以大男子主义有时候是必须有的。　　

50.追求爱慕的异性是很常见的说法。其实对方不喜欢你，你再怎么追也没用，对方喜欢你，根本不需要挖空心思去追。或许真有一天他被你的诚意所打动，可最终大多还是会分手的。因为爱情不是感动，你不是他心目中的理想伴侣，即使一时接受你，将来碰上他心仪的那一位，一样会离开你。当然，对于喜欢你的人，你还是需要花点心思去讨好他的，因为这样才像拍拖，才浪漫。　　

51.经常有人问在朋友和恋人之间叫你选择，你会选择哪一个？其实我觉得这个问题是多余的。真正懂你的朋友或恋人，他们会体谅你的行为，如果不体谅你，因此失去也不必太在意。朋友或恋人是要互相帮助的，而不是硬性迁就的。　　

52.都说一个成功的男人背后，常常有一个默默无闻的支持他的女人，那一个失败的男人的背后，是不是也常常有一个瞎捣乱的女人呢？　　

53.曾经沧海难为水，除却巫山不是云。可是如果我还没经沧海或是刚到沧海打了个转就回来，而且也没到过巫山就一头钻进了围城怎么办啊　　

54.浪漫是什么？是送花？雨中漫步？楼前伫立不去？如果两人彼此倾心相爱，什么事都不做，静静相对都会感觉是浪漫的。否则，即使两人坐到月亮上拍拖，也是感觉不到浪漫的。　　

55.是否门当户对不要紧，最重要应该是兴当趣对，不然没有共同语言，即使在一起，仍然会感觉到孤独。　

56.学会用理解的，欣赏的眼光去看对方，而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。　　

57.持久的爱情源于彼此发自内心的真爱，建立在平等的基础之上。任何只顾疯狂爱人而不顾自己有否被爱，或是只顾享受被爱而不知真心爱人的人都不会有好的结局。

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有时候，我常常想起她那张年轻普通的脸。就是那样一个女孩，用那种聪明的方式喜欢着我，让我改变了一切，获得了上进的动力。这种动力，足以让我成为一个优秀的人。

　　那一年，我是班里有名的坏学生，上重点中学完全是靠关系，入学考试大排名，我是倒数第一，越发对学习厌恶透顶。

　　我经常逃课，和一帮朋友鬼混。他们没有上高中，有的学开车，有的上了技工学校，还有的学会了抽烟喝酒泡女孩子。我还帮着他们打过几次架，被学校记了处分，父亲罚我跪下，母亲哭得稀里哗啦，说，你再这样就快进监狱了，我们怎么见人啊？

　　前途一片渺茫，我只盼着招飞行员的快来，好一走了之。

　　后来，班主任给我安排了一个新同桌。她是年级前十名，常常去参加各类竞赛，拿各种奖项回来，作文还被登在校刊上。我知道班主任的用心良苦，是想要她带动我学习。但我一向讨厌好学生。

　　上课我写纸条给她，你知道白雪公主的故事吗？以为她不会理我，但她在纸条下面写道：知道。

　　我又问：她结婚后生的孩子你知道是谁吗？

　　她又写道：不知道。还有这么一个童话吗？

　　我写道：白雪公主生了个女孩子，叫灰姑娘，她很失望于自己生了这么难看的孩子，所以和王子离婚了。

　　她看了居然“扑哧”笑出声来，老师很生气，第一次当众喝斥她：“笑什么笑？”

　　她脸红了，很尴尬。我很得意。我就是故意让她不专心上课，把她气走，然后自己一个桌，看看天空，听听鸟叫，多好。

　　可是，她下课后却一本正经地问我，还知道哪些有趣的后续童话故事？你给我讲故事，我就教你写作业，让你抄我的笔记和复习资料。

　　我冷冷地说：不用当救世主，我不会感激你的。

　　她笑着说，我就是想看看一个倒数第一的学生，有没有本事考倒数第二？

　　被一个丫头小瞧，真是自尊受伤，我居然真的开始学习。原来，学习进去也不那么枯燥，甚至有点乐趣，何况，那丫头还不时地惊诧莫名：连这道数学题你都会解？

　　不久，我们考英语，我考了自己有史以来的最高分，69分。让我吃惊的是，同桌只考了65分。这个每次都是98分以上的英语科代表怎么了？

　　老师把我们都叫到办公室，一个表扬一个批评，然后又问她，是不是他影响了你？她说不是，然后忽然转过头来对我说，“你看，你稍微努力就可以超过我，这说明你很聪明，不是吗？”

　　这句话让我至今难忘，她是第一个说我聪明的人。

　　从此，我更加努力地学习，高一结束，我的成绩排在了全校中游，而她仍然遥遥领先。我对她说，总有一天我会超过你。

　　老师和家长都特别惊奇于我的改变。

　　毕业的时候，我和她都考上了名牌大学。在毕业晚会上，她坐在我身边，悄悄问我：“还记得那次英语考试吗？”

　　“当然，”我说，“你居然考得不如我。”

　　她笑了，“我是故意让着你，让你树立自己的自信心，你知道——我喜欢你，选择了这样的方式。”

　　她轻声细语，却让我无比震动。

　　她喜欢我？怎么会？当时我是最没出息的学生，老师头疼父母责骂的。

　　她又补充说，“我喜欢你写的那些小纸条，全留着呢，你和别的男生不一样，你有一种创造力，与生俱来的幽默感。你很独特……今后你也会与众不同的。”

　　后来，我们各自上了大学，这份青涩的恋情来不及开始就结束了。

　　有时候，我常常想起她那张年轻普通的脸。就是那样一个女孩，用那种聪明的方式喜欢着我，让我改变了一切，获得了上进的动力，这种动力，足以让我成为一个优秀的人。

　　直到今天，每次想起她，我的心里都有阵阵暖意。

一起吃苦的时光，那一碗馄饨 [转贴]

　　这天，白云酒楼里来了两位客人，一男一女，四十岁上下，穿着不俗，男的还拎着一个旅行包，看样子是一对出来旅游的夫妻。

　　服务员笑吟吟地送上菜单。男的接过菜单直接递女的，说:"你点吧，想吃什么点什么。"女的连看也不看一眼，抬头对服务员说:"给我们来碗馄饨就行了!"

　　服务员一怔，哪有到白云酒楼吃馄饨的?再说，酒楼里也没有馄饨卖啊。她以为自己没听清楚，不安的望着那个女顾客。女人又把自己的话重复了一遍，旁边的男人这时候发话了:"吃什么馄饨，又不是没钱?"

　　女人摇摇头说:"我就是要吃馄饨!"男人愣了愣，看到服务员惊讶的目光，很难为情地说:"好吧。请给我们来两碗馄饨。"

　　"不!"女人赶紧补充道，"只要一碗!"男人又一怔，一碗怎么吃?女人看男人皱起了眉头，就说:"你不是答应的，一路上都听我的吗?"

　　男人不吭声了，抱着手靠在椅子上。旁边的服务员露着了一丝鄙夷的笑意，心想:这女人抠门抠到家了。上酒楼光吃馄饨不说，两个人还只要一碗。她冲女人撇了撇嘴:"对不起，我们这里没有馄饨卖，两位想吃还是到外面大排挡去吧!"

　　女人一听，感到很意外，想了想才说:"怎么会没有馄饨卖呢?你是嫌生意小不愿做吧?"

　　这会儿，酒楼老板张先锋恰好经过，他听到女人的话，便冲服务员招招手，服务员走过去埋怨道:"老板，你看这两个人，上这只点馄饨吃，这不是存心捣吗?"

　　店老板微微一笑，冲她摆摆手。他也觉得很奇怪:看这对夫妻的打扮，应该不是吃不起饭的人，估计另有什么想法。不管怎样，生意上门，没有往外推的道理。

　　他小声吩咐服务员:"你到外面买一碗馄饨回来，多少钱买的，等会结帐时多收一倍的钱!"说完他拉张椅子坐下，开始观察起这对奇怪的夫妻。

　　过了一会，服务员捧回一碗热气腾腾的馄饨，往女人面前一放，说:"请两位慢用。"

　　看到馄饨，女人的眼睛都亮了，她把脸凑到碗面上，深深地细了一口气，然后，用汤匙轻轻搅拌着碗里的馄饨，好象舍不得吃，半天也不见送到嘴里。

　　男人瞪大眼睛看者女人，又扭头看看四周，感觉大家都在用奇怪的眼光盯着他们，顿感无地自容，恨恨地说道:"真搞不懂你在搞什么，千里迢迢跑来，就为了吃这碗馄饨?"

　　女人抬头说道:"我喜欢!"

　　男人一把拿起桌上的菜单:"你爱吃就吃吧，我饿了一天了，要补补。"他便招手叫服务员过来，一气点了七八个名贵的菜。

　　女人不急不慢，等男人点完了菜。这才淡淡地对服务员说:"你最好先问问他有没有钱，当心他吃霸王餐。"

　　没等服务员反应过来，男人就气红了脸:"放屁!老子会吃霸王餐?老子会没钱?"他边说边往怀里摸去，突然"咦"的一声:"我的钱包呢?"他索性站了起来，在身上又是拍又是捏，这一来竟然发现手机也失踪了。男人站着怔了半晌，最后将眼光投向对面的女人。

　　女人不慌不忙地说道:"迩别瞎忙活了，钱包和手机我昨晚都扔到河里了。"

　　男人一听，火了:"你疯了!"女人好象没听见一样，继续缓慢的搅拌着碗里的馄饨。男人突然想起什么，拉开随身的旅行包，伸手在里面猛掏起来。

　　女人冷冷说了句:"别找了，你的手表，还有我的戒指，咱们这次带出来所有值钱的东西，我都扔河里了。我身上还有五块钱，只够买这碗馄饨了!"

　　男人的脸刷地白了，一屁股坐下来，愤怒的瞪着女人:"你真是疯了，你真是疯了!咱们身上没有钱，那么远的路怎么回去啊?"

　　女人却一脸平静，不温不火地说:"你急什么?再怎么着，我们还有两条腿，走着走着就到家了。"

　　男人沉闷的哼了一声。女人继续说道:"二十年前，咱们身上一分钱也没有，不也照样回到家了吗?那时侯的天。比现在还冷呢!"

　　男人听了这句，不由的瞪直了眼:"你说，你说什么?"女人问:"你真的不记得了?"男人茫然的摇摇头。

　　女人叹了口气:"看来，这些年身上有了几个钱，迩就真的把什么都忘了。二十年前，咱们第一次出远门做生意，没想到被人骗了个精光，连回家的路费都没了。经过这里的时候，你要了一碗馄饨给我吃，我知道，那时候你身上就剩下五毛钱了……"

　　男人听到这里，身子一震，打量了四周:"这，这里……"女人说:"对，就是这里，我永远也不会忘记的，那时它还是一间又小又破的馄饨店。"

　　男人默默地低下头，女人转头对在一旁发愣的服务员道:"姑娘，请给我再拿只空碗来。"

　　服务员很快拿来了一只空碗，女人捧起面前的馄饨，拨了一大半到空碗里，轻轻推到男人面前:"吃吧，吃完了我们一块走回家!"

　　男人盯着面前的半碗馄饨，很久才说了句:"我不饿。"女人眼里闪动着泪光，喃喃自语:"二十年前，你也是这么说的!"说完，她盯着碗没有动汤匙，就这样静静地坐着。

　　男人说:"你怎么还不吃?"女人又哽咽了:"二十年前，你也是这么问我的。我记得我当时回答你。要吃就一块吃，要不吃就都不吃，现在，还是这句话!"

　　男人默默无语，伸手拿起了汤匙。不知什么原因，拿着汤匙的手抖得厉害，舀了几次，馄饨都掉下来。最后，他终于将一个馄饨送到了嘴里，使劲一吞，整个都吞到了肚子里。当他舀第二个馄饨的时候，眼泪突然"叭嗒`叭嗒"往下掉。

　　女人见他吃了，脸上露出了笑容，也拿起汤匙开始吃。馄饨一进嘴，眼泪同时滴进了碗里。这对夫妻就这和着眼泪把一碗馄饨分吃完了。

　　放下汤匙，男人抬头轻声问女人:"饱了么?"

　　女人摇了摇头。男人很着急，突然他好象想起了什么，弯腰脱下一只皮鞋，拉出鞋垫，手往里面摸，没想到居然摸出了五块钱。他怔了怔，不敢相信地瞪着手里的钱。

　　女人微笑的 说道:"二十年前，你骗我说只有五毛钱了，只能买一碗馄饨，其实呢，你还有五毛钱，就藏在鞋底里。我知道，你是想藏着那五毛钱，等我饿了的时候再拿出来。 后来你被逼吃了一半馄饨，知道我一定不饱，就把钱拿出来再买了一碗!"顿了顿，她又说道，"还好你记得自己做过的事，这五块钱，我没白藏!"

　　男人把钱递给服务员:"给我们再来一碗馄饨。"服务员没有接钱，快步跑开了，不一会，捧回来满满一大碗馄饨。

　　男人往女人碗里倒了一大半:"吃吧，趁热!"

　　女人没有动，说:"吃完了，咱们就得走回家了，你可别怪我，我只是想在分手前再和你一起饿一回。苦一回!"

　　男人一声不吭，低头大口大口吞咽着，连汤带水，吃得干干净净。他放下碗催促女人道:"快吃吧，吃好了我们走回家!"

　　女人说:"迩放心，我说话算话，回去就签字，钱我一分不要，你和哪个女人好，娶个十个八个，我也不会管你了……"

　　男人猛地大声喊了起来:"回去我就把那张离婚协议书烧了，还不行吗?"说完，他居然号啕大哭，"我错了，还不行吗?我脑袋抽筋了，还不行吗?"

　　女人面带笑容，平静地吃完了半碗馄饨，然后对服务员:"姑娘，结帐吧。"，

　　一直在旁观看的老板张先锋猛然惊醒，快步走了过来，挡住了女人的手，却从身上摸出了两张百元大钞递了过去:"既然你门回去就把离婚协议书烧了，为什么还要走路回家呢?"

　　男人和女人迟疑地看着店老板，店老板微笑道:"咱们都是老熟人了，你门二十年前吃的馄饨，就是我卖的，那馄饨就是我老婆亲手做的!"说罢，他把钱硬塞到男人手中，头也不回地走了……

　　店老板回到办公室，从抽屉取出那张早已拟好的离婚协议书，怔怔地看了半晌，喃喃自语地说:"看来，我的脑袋也抽筋了……"

　　分手时想想以前，那个陪你甘苦与共的人，一路走来。其实你们的故事并不短。时间慢慢过去，那些感动却一点一点封存。其实最疼你的人不是那个甜言蜜语哄你开心的人。也许就是在鞋底藏5元钱。在最后的时候把最后一点东西省着给你吃，却说不饿的人……

Wonderful Friday...

Life is great when there is no Friday class...^^

I'm at USJ ...and i went over to Jessica's place for econometric and some basic of Macro...
n...
was telling jessica that..
i must be doin lots of good job in my past life..
n therefore...
i have ppl such as Jessica besides me...

such as..
during my matric life, i have Yee Woon, See Yee, Hui Yee, Choi Yin, Ah Bong to teach me..
during my Uni, i have my beloved coursemate owez there for me..

I'm glad that i have all of u..
really....

o ya..
Jessica got her new phone..
n of cz....
I'm the 1st one who use her brand new W705 to take some SS pic la...haha..
here r some of the picx....^^

The vy FIRST pic taken from the Brand New Phone....

A little bit better thn the previous one...

Trying some of her phone effects n I found THIS!! AH shan!!!hahaa~

+and of course..not forgetting Jessica's CUTE cuTe cUtE nieces, its so hard 2 take a picx of 4 of us ..bt, at last we manage to after several attempts...haha....+

Attempt No 1 : FAILED! cant c Erny....

Attempt NO 2 : Still ok..bt BLUR...acceptable..


Attempt NO 3 , Ester coming in...n where m I??LOL FAILED!!

Attempt NO...? Finally...tis is better bt i look ugly ...so...FAILED!!haha

OKOK lo....

In process of improvement...^^
Me+Ester....

Finally..much better....^^



And together with d cuties...Ester&Erny...^^

【星洲日报】全辩造势讲座2月5日举行 ‧ 潘俭伟张念群王乃志胡渐彪主讲

【星洲日报】全辩造势讲座2月5日举行 ‧ 潘俭伟张念群王乃志胡渐彪主讲

Forum: Can Chinese-based political parties fight for the rights of Chinese communities effectively?

Date: 5th Feb 2010 (Friday) ; Time: 8.00pm ; Medium of instruction: Mandarin

Venue: Sinchew Jit Poh, Jalan Semangat, Petaling Jaya.

由于爸妈常分享政治，所以张念群从小就接触政治。

潘俭伟2007年弃商从政，加入行动党，308大选中选八打灵再也北区国会议员。

胡渐彪大学时期曾是全辩辩手，曾为马大辩论队摘下多项奖项。

王乃志2004年大选前加入马华，现任马青法律主任

（吉隆坡）八打灵再也北区国会议员潘俭伟、沙登区国会议员张念群、马青法律局主任王乃志、前马大全辩辩手胡渐彪将于2月5日（周五）晚上8时，在八打灵再也星洲日报总社B2礼堂，主讲“华基政党能否有效为华社争取权益”政治讲座。

这场讲座由星洲日报、马大华文学会联办，是第12届全国大专辩论会（全辩）的造势活动之一。

张念群从小接触政治

张念群出生于关心政治的家庭。父亲是行动党拉美士国会选区秘书，姐姐和姐夫分分别担任柔佛社青团团长和署理团长。这样的成长背景让张念群从小就接触政治，学生时代因辩论而更了解国内的政治情况，进而激发她从政的决心。

张念群2006年正式成为职业律师。 2008年她投身政治，308大选中，在马华的堡垒区沙登国会选区胜出，以27岁之龄，当上沙登区国会议员。

潘俭伟弃商从政

潘俭伟出生于柔佛峇株巴辖，毕业于牛津大学哲学、政治与经济系。 1997年他创立马来西亚一家在新加坡交易所上市的电子商务咨询公司并任总执行长，并在2001年8月让公司挂牌上市。那年他29岁，是新加坡挂牌公司最年轻的总裁。

10年后，他弃商从政，加入行动党，308大选中选八打灵再也北区国会议员。

王乃志为马华建功

王乃志出生于马六甲，中学毕业后负笈英国哈尔大学深造，后成为执行律师，开办自己的律师楼。现任马青法律主任。

他活跃于社团，曾担任甲海南会馆青年团团长及甲中华大会堂青年团团长，2004年大选前加入马华，并在马华的旗帜下，上阵甲市区国会议席，成功为马华夺下屡攻不下的行动党堡垒区。

胡渐彪曾是全辩辩手

胡渐彪毕业于马大中文系、副修国际关系。大学时期的他曾是全辩辩手，曾获得1999年国际大专辩论赛亚军、优秀辩手奖；1999全辩冠军、最佳辩手奖；2001新马大专辩论赛冠军、最佳辩手奖，以及2001国际大专辩论赛冠军。

大学毕业以后，他以新人身份主持《百万富翁》电视节目，一炮而红。踏入传媒界后，曾任新闻主播、电视节目主持人、电台DJ、新闻记者等。 2007年加入马华，并全职投入政治工作，曾于308大选中出任马华候选人。现任职某电台市场经理。

4位主讲人将针对“华基政党能否有效为华社争取权益”

这课题，发表各自的观点。现场设有问答环节，让出席者和主讲人交流。

星洲日报执行总编辑郭清江是这场讲座会的主持人。

讲座入场免费、无需索票。

今年以“江山代有人才出，辩醒世耳探真理”为主题的“第12届全辩”将于2月26日至3月14日开始，有关详情请密切留意《星洲日报》报导。

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haha...

its no more black in colour..
n this shows..
i'm on my way of changing..
to be much more +ve!!
n...i'm so relaxing nw...

finally..
my hell week is over...

what i had done during this hell week..
25/1/2010 :

SUKMUM Swimming...i swam for 4 events tis day...
- 200 m freestyle
( for warm up only....so I lepak je...)
- 200 m breastroke
(Its my stroke,of cz I'll try my best)
- 100 m backstroke
(LOL....i gt num 3rd!!haha..ok la..i admit..there's only 3 swimmers..bt..its my 1st time swimming backstroke n i never even success b4 when i trained)
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(Its again my stroke...even if i gt Bronze, bt tis time i really fight for it one le...haha...)

26/1/2010

-went for quanbian press conference in the morning...kena soot by the main sponsor...bt at least i'm started learning somethg frm this event...
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i swam..
-100 m breastroke...( the one i never get before..n i really want it..n..I GOT IT..eventhough its bronze again...haha)
-100 m Butterfly Stroke ( Its my 1st time also..n i never ever imagine taht i can swim 100m of fly..OMG!! n...i gt SILVER^^...)
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27/1/2010

-the most embarrassing day ever..LOL..
n i really wonder why..i think i'll b d Joke producer..Funny maker..everythg which ia actually a normal stuff, whn it happens on me..it'll b JOKE that ppl will never think of it....haha
(I FELL DOWN from the chair in tutor class LOUDLY!!) OMG~~>< - the busiest night ever... 5.30pm : Lobak's meeting... 6.30pm : went kepo v BK n Jacky's Jualan.. 7.00pm : met v Lobak after dinner again, blow water sambil discussion until 9pm.. 9.00pm : Meeting QUANBIAN~~n guess what?? the meeting started from 9.30pm and ended almost at 3.30am!! SIX HOURS MEETING...!!
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28/1/2010

-was late for photo session..
n all of the MT of quan bian slept nt more than 2 hours!!i wonder hw the picx we all look like....
-n..its my presentation day!!!DEAD...n i'm sooOoo worry....
nt...luckily...its all over~~^^


++++Its Thursday Night!!!+++++

tml is Fri...n i'm goin jessica's house for econometric...
day after tml is Sat...it'll b a LOOooOoNG meeting....haiz....
Sun...i hope that i'll b free..
i hope that...haha..

n Mon..Lobak's activity...n i hope that this activity wil b a success one...^^

that's all...haha..
enuf of wasting my time...i'm so sleepy right nw...

ciaoz...

gambateh...

taking a deep breath...
closed my eyes for one min..
telling myself to keep going on...

I'll be kinda relief after the presentation later..
n i can focus on the quan bian stuff for d Sat deadline..
and..
of course...
MY COMING MID TERM on 5th & 10th Feb 2010..

Miss Loke..
keep holding on no matter hw tired u r..
believe in urself..
it wil end in few more weeks..
by that time..
u can hav all d fun u want...
^^

quan bian

jz finished meeting...
shud b used to tis kinda late night meeting huh??
started uour meeting at 9.30pm n ended at 3.30am....
i wonder..
hw i can survive through tis long long meeting.....

it's actually a vy interesting event..
that i can really learn...

yet..
its kinda tiring..
when it comes to d opportunity costs...
i gotta give up my leisure time..
i gotta sacrifice my entertainment time..
i gotta quit MASUM...

20 days to go exclude CNY..
n i'm praying hard so that i can get through all this..
my job scope is actually d easiest among them..
yet..
its d most important part..
event flow...protocol..
jz hope that everythg wil be ok...

i'm having my presentation later..
yet..
i know nothg about it..
photo session in 2 more hours time...

i'm hungry nw..
yet..
i m lazy to go 4 my mushroom soup....
haha..
really gotta have some determination to put down my weight le..
even mum is oso keep reminding me to eat less..
LOL..

haiz..
my weekend plan was canceled again..
i actually planned 2 use d weekend to study for my coming mid term....
n even go over jessica's house 2 ask her 2 teach me..
yet.....
we gotta stay bac at UM for quan bian whole day workshop..

someone please..
someone please save my macro...
someone please teach me econometric...

gambateh Miss Loke..

swimming

its a GREAT DAY!!
n..
i'm so delighted nw..
wakaka...
HAPPY!!
HOORAY!!

finally.....
SUKMUM is over..
bt..
actually..
i'm kinda dun want it 2 end so fast...

~I LOVE SWIMMING~

its d only time that i feel myself is actually still "useful".
LOL..
simple reason :
when it comes to academic...I know NOTHING...
when it comes to activities...I dun hav the leadership...

bt..
when it comes to SWIMMING..
i found myself..
i gain my confidence..
eventhough i'm nt fast...
bt...i'm stil able to swim while some cant...

SWIMMING.
is the BEST way to for me to relax...


jz a crapping post..haha...
thinking hw 2 update bout my SUKMUM..
hehe..
the best two days in my HELL week..
haha~~^^

(to be cont.......wanna ZzZZ ady....)

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相遇的那天漾着微笑的你
那个微笑
还是很美丽
可惜那个人常常要让人哭泣
太耀眼的城市不适合看星星
就如同你的心不适合谈安定
谢谢你让我伤过心
学会爱情并非执迷
人改变不了改变不了的事情
记得要忘记忘记
我提醒自己
你已经是
人海中的一个背影
长长时光
我应该要有新的回忆
人无法决定会为谁动心
但至少可以决定放不放弃
我承认我
还是会爱着你
但我将永不再触碰这记忆
记得要忘记 忘记
经过我的你
毕竟只是很偶然的那种相遇
不会不容易
我有一辈子
足够用来忘记
人无法决定会为谁动心
但至少可以决定放不放弃
我承认我
还是会爱着你
但我将永不再触碰这记忆
记得要忘记忘记
我提醒自己
你已经是
人海中的一个背影
长长时光
我应该要有新的回忆
记得要忘记 忘记
经过我的你
毕竟只是很偶然的那种相遇
不会不容易
我有一辈子
足够用来忘记
我还有一辈子
可以用来努力

记得要忘记他们的所作所为…

我一定会忘记你
别再为他流泪，她们不值得……
你走了太久一定很累
他错了不该你来面对
离开他就好 就算了 心情很干脆

他其实没有那么绝对
远一点你就看出真伪
离开他不等于你的世界会崩溃
转个弯你还能飞

就别再为他流泪
别再让他操控你的伤悲
就算有一点愚昧一点点后悔
也不要太狼狈
他不值得你的泪
把那遗憾留在大雨的街
你曾在迷失的旅途中盲目追
以后为自己醉
梁静茹 - 别再为他流泪
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别再让他操控你的伤悲
就算有一点愚昧一点点后悔
也不要太狼

craps...

jz feel like blogging...
eventhough i dunno hw shud i start..
wat shud i type..

i'm alone in d room again..
yet..
i'm getting used to it...

n guess what?
my room's light r off,
its raining outside v thunder...
n all i hav is my lappy in v my table lamp..

training myself to b more brave..
training myself nt to b afraid..
training myself to b independent....

it was another bz day..
log discussion..
reach bac my room around 6pm..
luckily i hav d discussion 2 fill up my time..
otherwise..time will b tough for me...

i'm starting to think..
to 反省 tis time..
i dun wan tis kinda thg 2 happen anymore..
bcz it really hurts..
bcz I know that i cant take it anymore if tis kinda thg happen once again..

if i had a chance to rewind all these stuff...

I wont b so close to my roommates...
I wont cherish the memories that we shared...
I wont take them as some1 so important to me..
I wont care so much..
I wont....
I will do anythg to protect myself...

telling myself..
tis is d last time my tears wasted on them...
b strong jy..
b strong..
at least you know u r nt alone.....

u have other thgs goin on..
tml is ur SUKMUM..
n u gotta go meeting nw...

wipe ur tears...
n put a smile on ur face...
its nt worth with it...

*~smile~*

its a happy post..
no worries....^^

had a great time jz nw...
with Shan, Bo Keong, n Jin Hong...

it was d longest "dinner time" ever..
bt..
i really enjoyed it..

thx friends...
i know that we r all busy v our own stuff..
bt, thx for spending time v me..thx^^
luv ur soOo much~~

hehe..

" You gave HIM what he needs, I gave HIM what he wants."
^^

"BEST" roommate award..

i was sad..
I was hurt..
N u got me right..i WAS..

there was a post b4 this...
n i've deleted it..

i'm nw able to think..
They r not worth for my tears..
They r nobody for me to care of..
They r jz a stranger tat manage to hurt me..

N i'm glad..they taught me how to grow..

If anybody wants a roommate,ur can actually find them..
They can give u d privacy u want..100%guarantee..

Publicity for perfect roommate:

I'm sensitive..n i admit tat..n they r jz so good,purposely go enjoy without telling..eventhough we were together b4 they went singing k...jz bcz they scare i'll become emo..

I'm busy..n they r jz so kind..knowing tat i'm so busy n they wont even ask bout my will whether to join them for d entertainment activity..
They r jz so good tat they know i have no time n wont wanna join them anymore..

I'm quiet..shock?quiet?d word on me?yet.tis is d situation nw where 3of us r in d room..
They r so good tat knowing i'm owez busy n nid some quietness during my free time..n they x wanna spoilt d quietness i'm enjoying in d room..n therefore they'll chat through msn, eventhough the room is jz so small...
Wat a good roommate i have..

It's almost 5,
N i'm room alone again..
It reminds me bout d previously incident..which really brought me,shan&lobak together..
which really changed shan...
which nearly caused my world to become up side down....

I stil can remember clearly bout me n hui teng's talk after d pro occur..

Hui teng:"we all know tat u dun like to b alone in d room..we know tat u like ppl around u..d only mistake we did was we din ask u ourselves.."
Once my dearest roommate..

Ya..right..u all know that i hate being alone in d room..i feel emptiness,i feel loneliness..yet..
wat did ur do was..goin without me n find such lame excuses..

N here comes..
Y do i think they deserve tis award..

They r soOoOo CARING..knowing tat i'm not feeling well..nid more rest..n therefore my caring roommates wait until i fall aslp only go out for mid9 movie..n send me a msg after goin out..such caring roommates i hav..shud i b happy?
They know i nid more rest le..n i shud enjoy d quietness without them..
Therefore i strongly agree tat they SHOULD get d best roommate award..

I'm once again alone in d room..
So sleepy..so tired..n i'm praying hard..so tat i wont k more bout frens..frens r nothg now. Thx for crushing my simple thought once again..

i really nid 2 learn..
i really nid to grow..
i really nid 2 b tough...

bt...i'm stil glad...
i have shan with me...
i'm stil happy..
i have my beloved coursemates...
i'm stil nt alone..
i have irene there for me...

N..
dun worry peeps..
i'll b ok...really....

finally....

finally...
i had burst into tears after Macro II lecture...
it was kinda embarrassing...
bt luckily, it was only in front of my beloved course mates...

i blame myself for being such stupid...
i hate myself for being a slow learner..
i jz cant understand y i cant cope in stress while the others can..

bt..
at least..
i felt better...
at least...
i noe there r stil alot frens for me there...

the only thg i can do now is...
relax myself...get some free time for my own...
I actually plan 2 do preparation for Macro presentation tml..
bt..after few days of being so tension.,..
yest i've made my decision..
i wanna go shopping!!
i wanna go sing K!!
i dun k hw i'll feel after i hav a crazy day tml...

any1 wanna join?


p/s : countdown-ing for SUKMUM to end....

simple wish...

i have a simple wish..
i'm wishing i have an extra 1hour everyday...

1 hour...

for me 2 slp...
for me 2 do my own stuff...
for me 2 have a good rest...
for me 2 day-dreaming...
for me 2 read my long abandoned novel...
for me 2 finish 1 episode of drama...
for me 2 b me..

it sounds like a simple wish..
yet...
its so hard for me...

i'm so emo ...
i'm so depress..
i'm so stress...
i'm so tension...
i'm so tight...

i wanna go shoppng..
i wanna go sing k..
i wanna go 4 a movie...
i wan some time for my novels..
yet.....

here m i...
trying to ignore everthg n blog..

luckily i have a bunch of xiao zha bor...
they were owez there to cheer me up..

luckily i have shan to b there v me...
n i really enjoy our quality time every night after 12.am( cz its d only time we both can really settle down)
i cant imagine wat i'll b whn she's shifting bac to her room...

nt forgetting Joey..
her happy go-lucky style really cheer me up everyday b4 i slp..^^

m i tough enuf to go through tis?
m i strong enuf to face d stress?

NO...
i'm nt strong..
i'm nt tough...

yet..
i'm forcing myself...
facing all d activities i'm involving..

gasping for some fresh air..
countdown-ing till the end of SUKMUM, Quan Bian, FESENI...

I'm gonna burst..
i wanna cry like nobody business..
i wanna walk under the rain like last time..
i wanna shop like i'm a millionaire..

bt...
it's still my choice..
n i'm going to finish it..
no matter what....

bless me....

beloved coursemates...

thx for being there...
thx for giving me d advices...
thx for telling me the true meaning of friendship..
especially in my critical time....

thx Mum Jessica...thx for being there whenever i nid u...
thx sinyee..thx for all d crapping time we share together..
thx aunty emily...thx for all d advice that u gave me whenever i'm down..
thx aunty amy for all support whenever i'm down v my studies...
thx hui yee for bringing them to me...n being my best listener...

i was soOooo touched today....
when i was rushing my suppose to finish d tutor...
they were there for me..
when i was so stress while understanding my tutor..
they were there for me...
when i have no time for group discussion..
they din blame me for not giving commitment...

thx for bringing my confidence towards friendship...
thx for being there...

and
i'm really sorry for keep troubling u all..
i'm really sorry for not giving commitment..
i'm really sorry for doing anythg....

love this xiao zha bor gang soOooooOo MUCH!!

emo

it's my emo time again..lol..
AGAIN..
haiz..
was bz during the whole day today v PKB's camp...
enjoy the stupid act that we all did..
cherish the moment forever...
looking at them, it brings me bac to my 1st year..
the year that I relly really missed with my whole life...
n how i wish i have a life video cam that can rewind every thg...

by looking ta them..
i remember hw bad i was..
by seeing their spirit..
i remember hw semangat we were...
by running those activity..,
i remember the craziness we shared together..

bt..
those was past...
there;s no more turning back..

n...
so do i v my roommate..
was actually listening to SHE's 星星之火...it used to b our C110 song...
yet...
i skip it whenever i heard the beginning part...
i still feel the pain..
n..
today...
me and shan was sOoOo busy..
n we cant even have our little time to rest..
yet..
after settle everythg, n we finally hav our precious 30min rest..
we stil gotta refill OUR ROOM 5liter water x 4!!
She was soOoOOo free until i think she almost finish her TVB drama..
sleeping 3 times more than me n shan..
n yet...
a simple thg like filing d water to her seems like its a vy vy hard work..

i'm trying hard 2 calm down..
n i'm worried that..
one day..someday...somehow..
this volcano will explode..
i cant stand it anymore...!!

i truly believe in Karma..
yet...
it hits me v what they had done to us..
Once, i believe in true friendship..
yet....

(speechless.....)

p/s: miss Loke..
.pls stop convincing urself that u hav ady let go..u are not ready!!
yet..i'm sure that u'll b able to do it someday with the continuous attitude by them!!gambateh!!

True Friendship

was suppose to study my macro...yet....i cant control my finger to serve the net..n i came to this text...reminds me of Chong Sing, Vivian, Irene,Choi Yin, Kang Wen,Han siong, Pak Siong.....n...i Miss them SooOo Much.....

TRUE FRIENDSHIP

Have you ever wondered what the real essence of the saying "A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed" is? People talk about the true value of friendship actually without knowing what it stands for. True friendship is the one, in which the individuals do not have to maintain formalities with each other. Sharing true friendship is the situation, when the person you are talking about is counted as one among your family members, when the relation you share with him/her reaches a stage that even if you don't correspond for sometime, your friendship remains unscathed. Best friends need not meet up often to make sure that the friendship remains constant.

The trust between best friends is such that if one friend falls in trouble, the other will not think twice to help. If the bond between two friends is strong, true friends can endure even long distances. For them, geographical separation is just a part of life. It would not affect their friendship. They make it a point to stay in touch, even in the verge of being exhausted due to the drudgery of everyday life. True friendship never fades away. In fact, it grows better with time. True friendship thrives on trust, inspiration and comfort. Best friends come to know, when the other person is in trouble, merely by listening to their "Hello" over the phone. They can even understand each other's silence.

True friends don't desert each other when one is facing trouble. They would face it together and support each other, even if it is against the interests of the other person. Best friends don't analyze each other; they don't have to do so. They accept each other with their positive and negative qualities. Nothing is hidden between true friends. They know each other's strengths as well as weaknesses. One would not overpower the other. They would respect each other's individuality. In fact, they would understand the similarities and respect the differences. Best friends don't stand any outsider commenting or criticizing their friendship and they can put up a very firm resistance, if anyone does so.

True friends are not opportunists. They don't help, because they have something to gain out of it. True friendship is marked by selflessness. Best friends support even each other, even if the whole world opposes them. It is not easy getting true friends for the lifetime. If you have even one true friend, consider yourself blessed. Remember, all best friends are friends, but not all friends can be best friends. In this world of cynics and back stabbers, there are still some people who are worth being friends with. They have to be recognized and respected for being best friends, for the lifetime.

overloaded..

LOL...
cant believe that i actually really fainted yest durin d blood donation..
n only managed 2 donate for 150CC with a statement there: "DONOR FAINTED"..
lol..
kena bomb...
n..
i really came to a conclusion where...
:"Things may seems usual when it happen on somebody else...when Simple things happen on me, it became a JOKE pula.."lol
i wonder y...

felt tat myself is overloaded..
i dun hav my own time..
i dun hav my free time..
i wanted to go shopping.
bt there nt a free day for me.
i'm fully "BOOKED" with SUKMUM training, CHoir, Quan Bian, CC...

i wanna study..
seriously.
this time..
n..
i'm starting to feel the stress..
its only the 3rd week of class started...
yet...
the stress is here..
seeing everybody is starting to study...
and understanding everythg wat is the lecturer talking about..
n...it seems like i'm d only one with blur situation...

i blame myself for being forgetful..
i blame myself for not remembering bout last sems subject..
i blame myself for being stupid...
i blame myself for x understanding wat is the lecturer teachin during class...

i found myself helpless, hopeless. and useless...

无力感正持续地蔓延着~~~

thoughts....

sometimes i jz wonder..
y there's somethg called "Love" is this world..
there r lots of kind of love in this world, friendship love, family love, pet love..
bt..
wat is the love in a relationship?
one of my friend of mine was so emo..
i jz dun understand y thgs r such complicated whn it comes to a relationship between a couple...

n thx to him..
n some of my fren who r in relationship or 单恋着~~

they r jz freaking me out!!

i jz dun understand y nt jz make it simple..
ya..we cant control feelings..
ya...we cant make thgs more simple...
ya...thgs r out of control..
n...
i came to my own concept...
its better to stay single...
its better to b alone..
its better to enjoy my freedom than i hav to compromise with somebody else..
its better for me to do whatever i want thn i hav to get somebody else permission..

while i was typing tis...shan was nagging beside me..
n i'm glad tat we hav d same concept..wakakak..
wat's a bf for??
ha!
waste of time...
waste of energy..
waste of money...
waste of phone credit..

haha~~
yeah right...
i wonder il i stay single forever....=.=""


another thg..
sometimes i jz wonder..
y can somebody eat so little..haiyo..
make me feel guilty whn i'm eating alot..haiz...

n i shud start my studies nw..
otherwise..
i'll b crying through my study week..sob sob~~~

finally...
d starting of d big day is here..
someone is gonna kill me for typing tis at tis time..haha..
yeah right...
the 第12届全国大专辩论会's公开赛 is held NOW..
at tis time...
haha..
n yet..i'm blogging...swt..
no la..
i'm jz too bored of baby sitting d uni..
they jz manage themselves only..
so i'llb waiting here n miss out so many matches..
sob sob..
i wonder hw's everythg over there..
skip tat part 1st..
at least tis is d starting point of 全辩~
ya, right, we shud start it earlier, nt nw..
bt i'm sure tat we stil can make it..gambateh!!!

here's d post of d day whn we deal v 12th coll..
haha..
was kinda rush tat day..
after class., skip class..thn go meet up n take d keys...
bt.
it was really fun tat day..
hehe..
got winnie the pooh comb frm hy..
gt molested by her roommate..omg!!=.=""

thn havin our half way discussion v no conclusion for Method..
our gao diao-ness on our way to fac..
d best part..
laughing while walking can really kills..haha..
n we even start laughing from 3rd to Fac..omg...
nyaris-nyaris putus nafas...hehe..
luv ur so much siao zha bor...hahaha...

k la...
gtg over IPS to check up some stuff n c d result dy..hehe..
ciaoz peeps^^
take k!!

blogging mood....

here's my blogging mood..
had abandoned my blog for weeks until somebody is complaining...

haha...
wanted for a change for myself actually...
bt..
its seems the same..
it's stil d owez noisy me..
it's stil d eating non-stop me..
bt..
i'm jz happy to b myself...

found some reason why i alk non-stop outside..
its jz bcz i talk too little in my room nowadays..
with a earphone n ghost whisperer..
waiting for sukmum training..
n there goes my quality time in my room..
its like so stramge n weird..
there's jz like an invisible wall around me..
bt..
tis time, i'll jz stay put..
i wont take any action..
ppl tends to b tired..
ppl tends to have enough..
ppl tends to hope for more...

wat i want is actually a smile from my bottom of heart..
n i only found it outside my room..
its a fact that..thgs r diff after thgs happen..


nah...
y m i keep blogging the same issue over n over again....
shud post some happy thought in this emo blogspot..hehe...

1st post of 2010

Vivian + Me....

n i'm glad she's still here...

cant believe i'll start my 1st blog in 2010 with tis...
n i cant believe that i almost lost her...
my dearest..

n i'm glad tat i still can hear her voice nw...
thank God for not bringing her away from me..
thanks to everythg that din bring her away...

i was shock and my tears actually role in my eyes when she was telling me hw did d accident happen on phone last 9..
imagining that i almost lost her...
imagine how life goes on without her...
we seldom meet..
bt...she's d one...tat makes me believe that there's stil friendship..

she has been there whenever since i met her..
taught me naughty thought...
telling me what is true friendship...
telling me what is the world actually look like..
telling me nt to b too naive...
giving me lots of 1st time..
my 1st,2nd 3rd clubbing v her...
my ever lasting friendship v her..
my ever lasting memories v her...


and i'm glad...we still have each other....

n sorry irene dear, sorry for nt saying goodbye..
miss you!!