一个“哦”伤了多少人（转）

来源： 顾琛的日志

约好：不要再说“哦”字了，好吗？当你说出只“哦”字时，我真的不知道怎么回复你了，你们知道吗？ 

“哦” ----- 我们说好不要再说这个字好吗？ 请善待“哦”这个字！！！ 

“哦”是网络发展进化出的一种无语的表达方式，特别没有感情的一个字、类似冷笑。 你有过这种经历吗？在你与哪个人聊天时，聊着聊着对方闪过一个“哦”字。 你便会再也找不到思路，而通常你们的每一个谈话都会以“哦”这个字结尾。 是无语才会说“哦”。。。。。。 其实你是知道的，我们都知道： 

在你和心爱的人聊天时，对方回复你一个“哦”字时，你心里的五味瓶一定打碎了，滋味都乱了，对吧？ 

在你和你多年不联系的朋友联系上时 ，你们叙旧、你们畅谈、对方回复你一个“哦”字，难道你还有兴致继续说下去吗 ？ 你知道的、 他是不想和你说了才会说“哦”。 

是以“哦”这样简单的形式告诉你：忙你的吧，别烦我！ 

难道你不觉得“哦”是一种最无奈、最苦、最冷的表达方式吗？ 

请善待“哦”这个字， 请不要轻易说“哦”！ 

我们会在十分生气、恼火的时候 ，却不想粗口的时候， 迫不得已挤出“哦”这个字。 

如果我对你“哦”， 那一定是我真的生气了 ，只有这种表达方式才可以触碰到你、刺痛到你。 

可是当自己真的对很在乎的人轻蔑说出“哦”时， 自己的心便被狠狠的扯了一下。 

不要再把“哦”挂在嘴边，因为那不是真正发自你内心的笑。 

就像有些东西写在电脑上， 你感觉不到他的深情 

少说些“哦”，它真的很伤感情！ 

不要对你在乎的人说“哦”， 

真的会伤到他。 

如果你不想说话，请直说！ 

不要“哦”！！！ 

一定要记住：如果你在乎、就不要说“哦”。 

感情压抑不住的时候别再说“哦”！ 

to him: now I know why are you so angry whenever i answer "o.."

will try to train my higher EQ ya~` Thanks for being there always with high EQ and patience....muackss...

♥simple outing with HIM♥

hmm..

it was our last outing before we went back for our study week..

was bored with Mid Valley ady..

so I suggested-----> ONE UTAMA!!

it took us a loooooong journey to One Utama..

tiring and SLOW..arghh~~

Luckily I have a high EQ darling there..

otherwise i would have burst out~~~

Reached there.

long queue for Movie ticket...queued and finally bought our ticket...

Retired

Extremely 

Dangerous

R.E.D

it is a nice show funny action movie..

highly recommended by MUA~~hahahaa

and..here we go..

for LUNCHHHH at Garden..

walk around finding Garden recommended by Hui Yee..

and we went to the wrong direction.

hungry and shown black face again..

sorry darling....but thank god..before bursting out...we FOUND IT!!!

and this here we go...FOODDDD!!

Lunch at GARDEN

The soup of the day was just an ordinary SOTO SOUP..it will be better if it came with the black chili..
The rest of food tasted nt bad..overall hmm..6.5/10?
But..the Ice Lemon Tea is the BESTTT!!!

After lunch,.

TIME to DIGEST FOOD~~hehe.

so we went walking around and darling finally gt his jeans at Parkson..

bt nt much choice also..

so we just took what they have..

even for gals departmant..all i see was only aunty clothes..

Darling wants me to shop for more girlish clothes..and be more lady like..

LOL.

haha....so....here we go...SHOPPINGGG~~

and LEARNING to be lady like~~><

Shopping is tiring..and so..of we go...for DINNER~~~

Dinner at JUST THAI

we ordered set for two..

consists of :
Green Curry Chicken...NICE!!!yummy~~~Spicy enough~~haha

KaiLan with salted Fish..Not bad..

Thai Toufu which taste good also..

and the popiah taste quite normal bt it taste good with the toufu sauce..

o ya..the dessert, pandan jelly cake is just nice for its sweetness..

hehe..

LoVE Thai FOOD!!

o ya~~

tried some of the clothes in Kitschen picked by Darling....

try guessing...which one he bought for me??

step one to lady look...=)

♥ Lover forever and Friends For Life ♥

I'm just a simple girl with a simple life..

and the MOST IMPORTANT is...

I'm surrounded with 

♥♥♥ LOVE ♥♥♥

I have family which love and take good care of me..

I have friends that love and care about me..

I have my darling to be there for me no matter what happen...

It was suppose to celeb shan's birthday too..
and so off we go to Lot 10 Shabu One...
The policy changed..
using Student card we can only have 2 hours to eat..
thd food are placed seperately..
the chicken wings are not out...
yet..
i stil enjoying the dinner because of the people around me..
I have my love, my dearest roommates, my best mum in uni, my close friends..
What best for eating Steamboat...
it is not about the food that you can eat non-stop and eat as much as you can..
It's all about the people eating wit you..
i feel it's a simple family gathering with birthday celebration purpose.
it was suppose to celeb Shan's and my birthday..
end up..
it turn out to be a simple gathering steamboat dinner...

The 4 of us acting stupid..

----> B 103 <----

The simple gathering

i expected there is at least a cake..
end up..
Pig Ming Choo just came shake hand with me and wished me..
HAPpY BirthDay..
swt =.="
a celebration without a cake is fine...bt without a Birthday Song??sobbbbb!!
its awkward dun you think.
and so..
the tired us went back to our college..

i bathed and went to the usual place and meet BK..
din notice i was in an emo sign where everyone can sees it...swt..I'm just so easy to be predicted huh...LOL

Met up with BK and as usual..
sharing...
was kinda down as my 21st Birthday is like ending like that..
hmm..
complaining bout last year's birthday i celebrated 3 times with 3 cakes..
but this year seems like no more chace to celeb..
not even with xie jiao the one whom i've celebrated 3 time birthday together counting down to the 4th one....
everyone is busy with own stuff..
so was kinda 遗憾~

and then.
BK's msg rang..it was kinda weird because whenever his msg rang, he will just let me read...but this time...
he even avoiding me for reading it..
and after the msg..from the mirror I saw King Fong Holding cake..
Lobal holding eggs..Shan and Ming Choo Holding a big and nice birthday card...=)

Aww...i was so touched..
they didn forget my birthday...
they gave me a surprise which i never think of it..
because earlier on when i reached room, shan and ming choo were like so so so busy with their stuff..
Shan continue printing her assgmt..Ming Choo so excited trying on her new clothes...

and now....
POP: My 2nd birThday surprise..
AWW....
THANKSSSS!!!!THANKSSS THANKSSS!!!
love ur so so so MUCH!!

A cute Birthday card done by Ming Choo with a Winne the Pooh she made hersef..

and collected 21 birthday wishes!!

Thank You piggy Roommate...

 4th Lobby where the simple but touched birthday celebrated.,.

thanks alot..!!

 The 21 birthday eggs  stated :

Happy Birthday

2 

Jee Yeng 

by Lobak and Shan,..

(there's a funny story behind the scene : bt it was a touched story for me...)

{Thank you the one whom I've been closed to since 1st yea} 

 And This is what I have...=)

 Best wishes from all my belovedsss..

Thank you Darling...

for keep finding excuse to ask me come down..

Thank you King Fong a.k.a. Ah Ko..

for waking up just to come down..

Thank you mum, Jessica

who was part of the surprise..

THANK YOU!!

and love ur A LOTTT

p/s: LOBAK: YOU ARE NO MORE THE SURPRISE SPOILER...HAHAH!! TAKE BACK TAKE BACK!! >.<"

Surprise BiRthDay Celebration??

hmm..
suppose to be at class at this momment..
the lazy bump like me, OVERSLEPT for the class....
so..
I'm here...to BLOG about the GREAT BIGGEST SURPRISE ever~~ =)

I know there will be a birthday celebration together with the xiao zha borss..
and i assume it wil be on Thurs because they were keep asking me when am I going back for Holiday..
(Me--ACTING SMART!!..><)
until..
when me and Lobak was planning for shan's birthday, and i suggested, why not put it on Monday..
AND..he just spoils the suppose to be surprise for me on Mon..
Cause,HYee asked me out to buy suang& vivi's present on Mon..And then..
lobak sudd say, "u will be celebrating v HYee they all also on Mon, so wanna celeb twice in a day??"
and haizzz.....sob sob sob...My SURPRSE GONE~~

msg Hyee and complain..

and Hyee stil so bad saying...no surprise a??ok lo..

celeb straight with Amy's birthday ba..on the same month also..

and...it was actually ok to me..

cz birthday celebration is to hang out with your good frens and have some gossiping,chit chat session...and all these..

and so....i thought there is no more outing on Monday...

On Sunday...on my way back to KL by FIRST COACH TRAIN ..hehee

jessica msg me...we cht for a while and then sudd blow water say wanna go shopping and spend money...

SORRY mum...for always letting to finish assgmt by yourselves...SORRY for being such a heavy burden...

skip the emo part..

and pop....

here we go...it's------------------->

MONDAY

was trying hard to see what is ARIMA..

ok la..

just admit it...not trying hard...but just randomly see while trying to upload pic for Jia Li's wedding...

still planned 2 sleep back later...

bt Jessica sudd msg me telling me that she's in the KTM..on her way to MID..

and..

me using the fastest speed...

here I am...MID VALLEYYY~~~

skip the parts i'm LOST in MidValley after N times I'm there...

And here we go..meet up with mum Jessica..

bring me pusing here pusing there..

and i suggested to go for movie...

mum suggested this movie :
LIFE AS WE KNOW IT

A Comedy with a warm story...

a show of my type..nicee~!!

and when the show ends...I wonder...how come Mum stil dun wanna move..

still sitting there..

and i looked behind..o ya..the door is not open yet..

and she pointed to a couple asking me to see what are they doing..

so..

and suddenly...

The xiao zha bors gang pop out!! 

SURPRISE ME!!!

i always sees ppl propose in the cinema..

Romantic and touching..

and never came across in my mind..

I GET TO BLOW AND MAKE MY 21st BIRTHDAY WISH IN THE CINEMA TOO

Awww...i was so touched cz the all the while low profile Emily,Amy,Lobak,Hyee,Syee,Jessica wont do such thing, singing out loud Birthday songs..yet..

This time they sang, and ther are still ppl inside the cinema..

TOUCHED!!

Thanks for the surprise..

This will be the most memorable birthday i have~~ =)

Muacksss!!

Let the pics tell the day...

 My still blur surprised look when I saw them..=)

 ME with the one and only one birthday cake~~

 Make my very own 21st birthday wish in the cinema??

I cant really wish that moment cause i was so so so TOUCH~~just close my eyes and wished..

Friends Forever!!

 May All My dreams come true!!

 The cake which Hui Yee Made..Yummmy!!!thanks zha bor~~^^

 And off we go..to Manhattan Fish Market..

i guess it's the restaurant's name huh??hehe..

the food was ok to me..cz the fish doesnt stink..

Thanks so much peeps...

. 

And finally..

our group pic..

we will be graduating very soon..

and we will be all far apart...

and I cant imagine that..

So..

MUST TAKE MORE MORE PIC!!!

p/s: wanna know what they gave me for present....shhhhh~~~hahaaa...

They finally let me know, what is my size..and even brought me there..goshh!!shy shy~~@@

they gave me the way of hw to wear a proper bra...

it is always SO SO So Good to have friends who knows what suits you..

Thanks alot my fren,..=)

Ending:

Prize giving for the role play of the day~~^^

best actress : Jessica Low

-Saying that I'm so perasan thought ppl wanna celeb my birthday jz bcz she drag me out for shopping..still really brought me to shop around...

best planner : Hui Yee Leong

-managed to stil surprise me although I'm guessing and be prepared with a celebration..muackss

best surprise spoiler:Lobak Loh

-told me too early and made me be prepared and sob for my no more surprise celebration..luckily he didn't know bout the planning...otherwise....><

best clothing actress : Sin Yee Chia

-HY told me she was picking clothes and inally..she pick 1 pretty dress and a tall shoes...even taller than everyone except HY& Lobak...happy liao ma??hhahaa=)

best spiritual award : Emily Hue & Amy Ku

-it is our vey last week of lecture week for our fifth sem..yet assgmt is still come pouring..TS due date is next day, yet Emily is stil here with her blink blink dress..Amy lagi hebat, forgotten she gt replacement class..and her she is...having her replacement class with us.....haha..

birthday celebration??

my previous post was about
how do i feel about birthday celebration..

hmm..
my 21st birthday is coming counting down in...
hmm..
perhaps 2 or 3 weeks time??
yet...
I have no special mood for this special day...

i used to be very excited when my birthday is coming..
yet...

this time...
to me..
Birthday celebration is really not a big deal..

I used to plan for my friend's 21st birthday.
giving her an unforgettable birthday gifts, and eggs....

I used to think..
and hope that i will have such friend that will really think of my birthday present...
giving me surprises...
and yet.
i found..
it's impossible..

everyone has their own stuff to do..
assgmts of this sem come pouring..
holidays is near..
and it seems birthday celebration is impossible...

I'm glad..
I'm glad that i din put any hope on birthday celebration this time..
because the higher expectation you have,.
the more hurt u r...

This reminds me bout the last birthday celebration with my ex-roommates..
when there are all the Nov babies' celebrations..
it was not fun at all and i was being isolated and EVEN BEEN CRITICIZE for being so unfriendly..

however..
I'm GLAD....
XIE JIAO is always there..
the true friends with familiar faces..
the one who bless me on my birthday with their hearts..
the one who brings me fun and tears of joy...
and of course all the Xie Jiao's ji muisss...ViVi,HY,Suang,Irene...muacks...
a day with u all will be fabulous~~=)

AND of course..
not forgetting my xie zha bor gangs..
the one who keep asking when m i going back lately...
the one planning behind me i guess??haha~~i'm getting smarter u know??hahaa
the one who i had fun in every classes together with them..
the one who need to tahan my non-stop talking mouth...
the one who knows what i want and what i need...=)

Lastly..
not forgetting Darling..
who has been stress bout my birthday celebration...
no worries darling...we will just plan after our finals ok?
Not pushing you and not insisting that I want a really romantic dinner and an expensive gift..
I might always grumble..
but tat is nt what i want...=)
no worries and dun be so stress k??

untitled

just a simple blog post...

nothing much happen recently...

the only "BIG EVENTS" that hav my shadow is..

The Sing k sessions v my beloved JiMui from Matric...

The random SKIPPING CLASS and just to SING K with my xiao zha bor gangss coursemates..

HY's 21st simple birthday gathering..

CS,TY,Xiao Xing xXing birthday high profile noisy xie jiao's celebration..

SUKMUM nt so frequent land training...

tonnes of assgmt,test and classes to be with them..

and that's all i perhaps...

Celebrated alot of birthday...

believe it or not?

I started celebrating birthday after Matric..

Birthdays before Matrics is just an ordinary day with birthday noodles and eggss...and nt even cakes...

During Matrics,

I love celebrating birthday..no matter mine or my dearest frens...

To me..

Having a celebration is a way for us..

to find excuses for break..

to gather and have fun..

to blow water.

to have cakes wars..

to be crazy..

and believe it or not??every celebration, brings us even closer to each other...=)

yet..

Things are different after Uni..

Matrics friends are all far apart..

hardly come out some time for a short gathering,.

and even, for same uni's fren a short meeting up need days to plan...

started to be tired of birthday celebration

not because we are no more close to each other..

is just because, the spirit that we always share..

the craziness that we always have 

are all gone..

we are all busy with our own stuff..

own new friends..

Every celebration planner is always the same ppl..

HuiYee Vivian and Me..

is nt that I'm complaining that no one cares..

is just..the feel is diff...

CS,TY,Big Head & MC is the soul of every birthday party..

and i really enjoyed every birthday party with their appreance.

i dun mind being high profile..

i admit, i even love their stupid act...=)

bt..

it is never 4 of them again...

just a random post about birthdays celebration feeling...

yet...

I still love celebrating birthdays.

as Birthday Songs cheers me up...

as the ppl attending are all my true friends that i will really cherish....

saying no??

HAS BEEN SAYING NO RECENTLY....

saying NO for attending birthday party that i dun feel like attending..
saying NO for the lunch outing that had been planned..
saying NO for joining lunch with coursemates....
saying NO when I really really DO NOT WANT...

it might be very common to others for saying NO...
but not to me..
I don't know how to reject people..
I don't know how to say NO..
I just cant see people's disappointing faces...
I just cant hear their disappointing tones...
I just cant...

I will still say yes and join everything i could no matter how...
I will still say yes to anyone if i can help out no matter how I am busy..
I will still say yes to anything that came to me no matter how unwilling for me to do it..
I will still say OK,YES...and end up regretted like nobody business...

But...forget bout those past...
AT LEAST....I'm able to say NO whenever I dun feel like to do it...
I dunno what changed me...
perhaps...when you got turn down by more people, you will start to build your own shelter...
when time goes...you will know...
rejecting people is not a big deal as u wil be rejected too...so...
SO WHAT for SAYING NO??

realize some advantages when you reject people...
1st....you have your very own time to do your own thing...ENJOY SLEEPING...SAVE MONEY...
2nd...you do not have to rush for your own stuff just to be at somewhere else that you dun really feel like being there...
(p/s: it's my fault for not having good time management...i admit it..and that's why i need more time to be wasted...  :P)
3rd..I wont force yourselves to be polite,or just putting a fake smile,being a stupid clown there when the event is cold...
(p/s: my EQ is the WORST among my friends..i cant control my black face..so..it's actually good for me to be isolated sometimes...)

see..
with this simple three advantages...
I found the "joy" for saying NO....
ya...
you might really be outdated with the group...
you might be automatically not called after rejecting..
you might dunno what is happening around...
you might just be a normal friend rather than a good friend....

BUT...
if that really happen....
they aren't your TRUE FRIEND....
TRUE FRIEND stick together no matter what...
TRUE FRIEND will still accept your bad and hot tempered..
TRUE FRIEND can tell whether r u in the good mood or bad mood....

had been moody lately...
I need listener..is not that i dun have...
it's just that...
i dunno how to start..
I dunno what is my problem..
I am stress..and i dunno what m i stressing about!!
I still talk like usual no matter where m I..
but...
something is different....
i dunno what is the problem..
I just dunno....
haizzz...
just that...
I'm really not one that can study..
that I always trouble ppl and even stressing out ppl.....sigh.. :'(
Miss Loke...you are just nothing....
not good in a single thing at ALL!!