so that i dun be hand itchy click here click there although none of my friend updated their blog..
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
N times of complaining...
so that i dun be hand itchy click here click there although none of my friend updated their blog..
Sunday, January 24, 2010
craps...
eventhough i dunno hw shud i start..
wat shud i type..
i'm alone in d room again..
yet..
i'm getting used to it...
n guess what?
my room's light r off,
its raining outside v thunder...
n all i hav is my lappy in v my table lamp..
training myself to b more brave..
training myself nt to b afraid..
training myself to b independent....
it was another bz day..
log discussion..
reach bac my room around 6pm..
luckily i hav d discussion 2 fill up my time..
otherwise..time will b tough for me...
i'm starting to think..
to 反省 tis time..
i dun wan tis kinda thg 2 happen anymore..
bcz it really hurts..
bcz I know that i cant take it anymore if tis kinda thg happen once again..
if i had a chance to rewind all these stuff...
I wont b so close to my roommates...
I wont cherish the memories that we shared...
I wont take them as some1 so important to me..
I wont care so much..
I wont....
I will do anythg to protect myself...
telling myself..
tis is d last time my tears wasted on them...
b strong jy..
b strong..
at least you know u r nt alone.....
u have other thgs goin on..
tml is ur SUKMUM..
n u gotta go meeting nw...
wipe ur tears...
n put a smile on ur face...
its nt worth with it...
*~smile~*
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
simple wish...
i'm wishing i have an extra 1hour everyday...
1 hour...
for me 2 slp...
for me 2 do my own stuff...
for me 2 have a good rest...
for me 2 day-dreaming...
for me 2 read my long abandoned novel...
for me 2 finish 1 episode of drama...
for me 2 b me..
it sounds like a simple wish..
yet...
its so hard for me...
i'm so emo ...
i'm so depress..
i'm so stress...
i'm so tension...
i'm so tight...
i wanna go shoppng..
i wanna go sing k..
i wanna go 4 a movie...
i wan some time for my novels..
yet.....
here m i...
trying to ignore everthg n blog..
luckily i have a bunch of xiao zha bor...
they were owez there to cheer me up..
luckily i have shan to b there v me...
n i really enjoy our quality time every night after 12.am( cz its d only time we both can really settle down)
i cant imagine wat i'll b whn she's shifting bac to her room...
nt forgetting Joey..
her happy go-lucky style really cheer me up everyday b4 i slp..^^
m i tough enuf to go through tis?
m i strong enuf to face d stress?
NO...
i'm nt strong..
i'm nt tough...
yet..
i'm forcing myself...
facing all d activities i'm involving..
gasping for some fresh air..
countdown-ing till the end of SUKMUM, Quan Bian, FESENI...
I'm gonna burst..
i wanna cry like nobody business..
i wanna walk under the rain like last time..
i wanna shop like i'm a millionaire..
bt...
it's still my choice..
n i'm going to finish it..
no matter what....
bless me....
Sunday, November 22, 2009
隐瞒vs决定权
要放开、要放下、别计较、笑一笑…
然而,
一次又一次的隐瞒…
一次又一次的假装…
一次又一次的“谅解”…
都让我们失望透了…
怀疑自己是不是做错了…
怀疑自己是不是真的小气…
怀疑自己是不是如此的惹人厌…
谢谢你们的“谅解”…
谢谢你们的“体谅”…
谢谢你们的“体贴”…
除了这些我不晓得还有什么能够谢了~
然而,这些都不是我们所需要的…
我们要的是“决定权”…
不是霸道,而是想知道…
当你从别人口中知道了真相,
而且是属于你们一gang的东西时,
你的心情会是如何?
我承认,我感觉到我被嫌弃…
更替他们觉得委屈…因为我,他们也连带的被遗忘…
甚至于被责怪,原因就是太挺我…
挺我有错吗?
试问,
朋友在你们的定义是什么?
难道就真的是吃、喝、玩、乐吗?
那你的酸、甜、苦、辣要找谁分担呢?
那天看到了明明是最熟悉的你,
两天前还通过电话…
从家乡来到了KL,也没有通知…
对,没错,
你,
或许认为我们可以从他人口中知道你有回过来…
或许认为我们在忙着跑donation drive…
或许认为我们巧遇你了之后会主动联络你…
我们的心摇摇欲坠…
已经在经不起打击…
担心你给的借口…
逃避你给的理由…
胆怯你给的反应…
而你,
从头到尾都抱着鸵鸟心态的你
又再一次的让我们受伤了…
对你而言
一封信息很贵吗?
一封电话很难吗?
还是
是我们应该主动联络你们呢?
是我们应该面对你们的冷落?
是我们应该把问题解决好?
谢谢你们又再一次的
让我知道友谊真正的定义是什么…
谢谢你们又再一次的
在我们的伤口上撒盐…
谢谢你们又再一次的
提醒着我们原本以不当一回事的往事…
除了谢谢,还是谢谢……
其实,
真的没有必要隐瞒,
隐瞒所造成的伤害是你们不能想象的…
没错,
你们会认为我们我们敏感…
但,
将心比心,
如果有一天,我们原本是一大班的朋友
有了某个计划,而你就是被遗忘的那个…
如果某一天,大家都计划好了,最后一个才很敷衍的问你…
你的感受如何?
或许你们都不会有这样的经历…
因为你们还有彼此…
而我,却只有珊,Lobak 和Ah Xian…
你们一直一直强调着,
问题是在我们身上…
我们的敏感,
我们的小气,
我们的放不开,
让你们很为难…
然而
你们呢?
难道所有的问题就只是出在单方面吗?
决定权并不是因为我们霸道…
而是至少让我们知道我们
没有被遗弃,
没有被遗忘,
没有被排斥…
这小小的通知真的很辛苦吗?
看这原本聊天可以很直接的我们
竟然变得有所顾虑…
很尴尬…
很勉强…
甚至有时候你们对我们约你们的态度…
让我们觉得
我们真的很霸道、不讲理…
心真的很痛…
或许所有人都认为是我,是我们把友情看得太重了…
那……
如你们所愿,
陆宇盈已经不是你们所认识的陆宇盈了…
她的笑容,她的高调,她的欢乐已不属于大家了…
她不再坚持友谊是她的全部…
谢谢你们把她的信念给活生生的碾碎……
谢谢!!
Sunday, November 1, 2009
男人,女人
男人要永远感谢在他20多岁的时候曾经陪在他身边的女人,因为20多岁的男人处在一生中的最低点,
没钱、没地位,没房、没车、没事业,
不能独立又不想依赖,
挣扎着彷徨着,寻找自己的位置!
20多岁的女人却是她生命中最灿烂的时候;
男人要永远感谢在他20多岁的时候曾经陪在他身边的女人,
因为二十多岁的男人还很“懵懂”,
而二十多岁的女人却很灿烂;
二十多岁的男人处在一生中的最低点,
而二十多岁的女人却是她的大好华年;
二十多岁的男人很不知珍惜,
而二十多岁的女人最需要被珍惜;
二十多岁的男人自卑到极点所以非常自负,
而二十多岁的女人却在努力建立他的自信;
二十多岁的男人不懂爱,不会爱却需要爱,
而二十多岁的女人需要被爱,需要关怀,却要付出呵护付出关怀;
二十多岁的男人没钱、没事业,但有欲望而二十多岁的女人空守着自己的韶光不再;
女孩子二十岁左右是她最美丽的年华,
这时她的心地最善良,
她有点成熟,又有点孩子气。
男孩子在二十多岁时遇见了一个年纪相当的女孩子,
那一定要珍惜她,
因为这个女孩是用自己最美丽的年华陪他走过了最暗淡的日子 !!!
女孩只要陪他走过,女孩会永远幸福下去~~~
女孩对你撒娇甚至无理取闹时,
请男孩不要烦恼女孩,
因为她们有道理这样,
我们没理由烦恼,
们要做的就是很理解很理解,
保护好这位天使,
我们到了30岁,
正当我们最美丽的时候,
请你不要放开这位曾经的天使 !!!
二十多岁的男人不知道珍惜,不知道感恩。
他们三十多岁的时候,事业有成,成熟稳重.
开始嫌弃曾经陪伴过他,
不再年轻的女人,
人说男人其实是最专一的
因为从20岁到80岁的男人都喜欢20岁左右年轻漂亮的女人。
是个笑话,但也是个事实。
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Funny~~~
金玉良言
- Save water. Shower with your girlfriend.
要節約用水,和女友一起洗澡。
- Love the neighbor. But don't get caught.
愛你的鄰居,不過別讓她老公抓到。
- One should love animals. They are so tasty.
每個人都應該熱愛動物,牠們是如此美味。
- 「Your future depends on your dreams.」 So go tosleep.
「現在的夢想決定著你的將來」所以還是睡覺吧。
- Behind every successful man, there is a woman.And behind every unsuccessful man, there are two.
每個成功男人的背後,都有一個女人。每個不成功男人的背後,都有兩個。
- Love is photogenic. It needs darkness to develop.
愛情就像照片,需要黑暗來培養。
- Children in backseats cause accidents. Accidents in backseats cause children.
後排座位上的小孩會生出意外,後排座位上的意外會生出小孩。
- Every man should marry. After all, happiness is not the only thing in life.
每個男人都應該結婚,畢竟快樂不是生活中唯一的追求。
- The wise never marry, And when they marry they become otherwise.
聰明人不結婚,一旦結婚就不聰明了。
- 「Work fascinates me.」 I can look at it for hours!
- 「Hard work never killed anybody.」 But why take the risk?
「 努力工作不會死的!」不過何必冒那個險呢?
- Success is a relative term. It brings so many relatives.
成功是相對的,他帶來很多親戚。
- Never put off the work till tomorrow what you can put off today.
別等到明天再拖延,今天就拖延吧。
- There should be a better way to start a day than waking up every morning.
應該有比在早上醒來更好的方式開始新的一天。
- Money is not everything. There's Mastercard & Visa.
鈔票不是一切的,這世上還有信用卡。
- A dress is like a barbed fence. It protects the premises without restricting the view.
服飾就像鐵絲網,它保衛了領土,但不妨礙視線。
- God made relatives; Thank God we can choose our friends.
神決定了誰是你的親戚,感謝上帝在選擇朋友方面,給我們留了餘地。
- When two's company, three's the result!
兩個人作伴,結果就變成了三個人!
- The more you learn, the more you know, The more you know, the more you forget. The more you forget, the less you know. So why bother to learn.
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Marketing...(what a joke..)
1. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say:
"I am very rich. Marry me!" -That's Direct Marketing
2. You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl. One of your friends goes up to her and pointing at you says:
"He's very rich. Marry him." -That'sAdvertising
3. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and get her telephone number. The next day, you call and say:
"Hi, I'm very rich. Marry me." -That'sTelemarketing
4. You're at a party and see a gorgeous girl. You get up and
straighten your tie, you walk up to her and pour her a drink, you open the door (of the car) for her, pick up her bag after she drops it, offer her a ride and then say: "By the way, I'm rich. Will you marry me?" -That'sPublic Relations
5. You're at a party and see a gorgeous girl. She walks up to you and says: "You are very rich! Can you marry me?" -That's Brand Recognition
6. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say:
"I am very rich. Marry me!" She gives you a nice hard slap on
your face. -That'sCustomer Feedback
7. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say:
"I am very rich. Marry me!" And she introduces you to her
husband. -That's demand and supply gap
8. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and before you say anything; another person comes and tells her: "I'm rich. Will you marry me?" and she goes with him -That'scompetition eating into your market share
9. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and before you say: "I'm rich, Marry me!" your wife arrives. -That's restriction for entering new markets
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
[ENTP] [INTP] [ENTJ] [INTJ] [ESTP] [ISTP] [ESFP] [ISFP]
Profile: ESFJ
Revision: 3.0
Date of Revision: 23 Feb 2005
Guardians of birthdays, holidays and celebrations, ESFJs are generous entertainers. They enjoy and joyfully observe traditions and are liberal in giving, especially where custom prescribes.
All else being equal, ESFJs enjoy being in charge. They see problems clearly and delegate easily, work hard and play with zest. ESFJs, as do most SJs, bear strong allegiance to rights of seniority. They willingly provide service (which embodies life's meaning) and expect the same from others.
ESFJs are easily wounded. And when wounded, their emotions will not be contained. They by nature "wear their hearts on their sleeves," often exuding warmth and bonhomie, but not infrequently boiling over with the vexation of their souls. Some ESFJs channel these vibrant emotions into moving dramatic performances on stage and screen.
Strong, contradictory forces consume the ESFJ. Their sense of right and wrong wrestles with an overwhelming rescuing, 'mothering' drive. This sometimes results in swift, immediate action taken upon a transgressor, followed by stern reprimand; ultimately, however, the prodigal is wrested from the gallows of their folly, just as the noose tightens and all hope is lost, by the very executioner!
An ESFJ at odds with self is a remarkable sight. When a decision must be made, especially one involving the risk of conflict (abhorrent to ESFJs), there ensues an in-house wrestling match between the aforementioned black-and-white Values and the Nemesis of Discord. The contender pits self against self, once firmly deciding with the Right, then switching to Prudence to forestall hostilities, countered by unswerving Values, ad exhaustium, winner take all.
As caretakers, ESFJs sense danger all around--germs within, the elements without, unscrupulous malefactors, insidious character flaws. The world is a dangerous place, not to be trusted. Not that the ESFJ is paranoid; 'hyper-vigilant' would be more precise. And thus they serve excellently as protectors, outstanding in fields such as medical care and elementary education.
Extraverted Feeling
ESFJs live in their Extraverted Feeling functioning. Feeling, a rational (i.e., deciding) function, expresses opinions easily in the E world of objects and people. ESFJs have the ability to express warmth, rage, and a range of other emotions. Actions are encouraged or rebuked based on how they affect other people, especially people near and dear to the ESFJ. This type's vocal decisiveness predisposes many of its number to facility with administration and supervision.
Introverted Sensing
The secondary Sensing function aids and abets the dominant Fe in that sensate data is collected and at once compared with the inner forms or standards. Data on which decisions are made are thus focused and given a contrast which tends to be stronger and clearer than the original stimuli. The strengthening effect of Si on Fe may be responsible for this type's reputation for wearing their "hearts on their sleeves." At any rate, ESFJs reflect the "black and white" view of reality which is common to the SJ types.
Extraverted iNtuition
Intuition is tertiary--as the ESFJ matures, and as situations arise which call for suspension of criticism, Ne is allowed to play. Under the leadership of the Fe function, iNtuition allows for a loosening of the more rigid Si rights and wrongs; teasing and slapstick humor emerge. ESFJs are also capable of discerning patterns and philosophies, but such perceiving is subject to the weakness of the tertiary position, and the results often lack the variety and complexity of connections that more complex systems require.
Introverted Thinking
The inferior Ti function may rarely be expressed. In fact, ESFJs may take affront at the aloof, detached nature of dominant Ti types, or conversely, be drawn to them. Some ESFJs construct rationale which have the appearance of (Jungian) Thinking logic, but under scrutiny are in fact command performances of "Thinking in the service of Feeling," (i.e., Thinking-like conclusions which do not obey the tenets of impersonal logic; they rather construct scenarios from only those "hard, cold facts" which support the conclusion reached by the dominant Extraverted Feeling function. To wit:
You don't sew with a fork, so I see no reason to eat
with knitting needles.
-- Miss Piggy, on eating Chinese Food
Famous ESFJs:
- U.S. Presidents:
- William McKinley
- William J. Clinton
Jack Benny
Desi Arnaz ("Ricky Ricardo")
Don Knotts ("Barney Fife")
John Connally (former Governor of Texas)
Terry Bradshaw, NFL quarterback
Sally Struthers (All in the Family)
Mary Tyler Moore
Dixie Carter (Designing Women)
Steve Spurrier, Heismann trophy winner, Univ. of Fla. football coach
Sally Field
Danny Glover, actor (Lethal Weapon movies, Predator 2 Margaret Butt
Nancy Kerrigan (U.S. olympic figureskater)
Elvis Stojko (Canadian olympic figureskater)
Fictional ESFJs:
Babbitt (Sinclair Lewis)
Hoss Cartwright (Bonanza)
Leonard "Bones" McCoy (Star Trek)
Monica (Friends)
Haleh (ER)
Donald Duck
Rabbit, Winnie the Pooh
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gt tis interesting test frm my roommate..interesting~
http://typelogic.com/esfj.htmlFriday, July 24, 2009
Thursday, July 2, 2009
一个成熟的爱情...
有一位心理学家曾写过,一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段,那就是:
- 共存(Codependent)
- 反依赖(Counterdependent)
- 独立(Independent)
- 共生(Interdependent)
第一个阶段:共存
这是热恋期间,情人不论何时何地总希望能黏在一起。
第二个阶段:反依赖
等到情感稳定后,至少会有一方想要有多一点自己的时间做自己想做的事,这时另一方就会感到被冷落。
第三个阶段:独立
这是第二个阶段的延续,要求更多独立自主的时间。
第四个阶段:共生
这时新的相处之道已经成形,你的他/她已经成为你最亲的人。你们在一起相互扶持,一起开创属于你们自己的人生。你们在一起不会互相牵绊,而会互相成长。
但是,大部分的人都通过不了第二和第三阶段,而选择分手,这是非常可惜的。
很多事只要好好沟通都会没事的,不要耍个性,不要想太多,要互相信任,这样,第二和第三阶段的时间就会缩短。
和所爱的人相遇相恋是非常不容易的,不要轻言放弃。
两人相聚是因为有缘,相知是因为有心,真的得好好珍惜这福分。希望能给大家一些启示和领悟,并惜缘。
我们会渐渐变成我们所爱的人。你和他本来没有相同之处,外表不相像,性格也南辕北撤,一旦爱上了,年深日久,你会惊讶你的眼睛有点像他的眼睛,他的微笑也有点像你的微笑。你们走路的步伐也有点相似,说话的语气也越来越相像。原来我们会变成我们所爱的人。
你本来喜欢脚踏实地的人,而他一向比较轻佻,但你们爱上了,他竟会不知不觉变成一个老实人,这个改变,连他自己也不曾察觉。他本来喜欢活泼的女孩,却爱上 拘谨的你,这些日子,你竟会越来越活泼,你差点认不出自己。我们会逐渐变成对方理想中的人,这种改变绝对不是刻意的。两个人越爱得长久,气质也越来越相 近。
你曾经以为他不是你梦寐以求的那种类型,然而,有一天,你会惊讶的发现,他已经变成你喜欢的那种类型,你不必再到处寻觅,他就是你要找的人。深深爱着一个 人的时候,你原来真的会一点一点的失去自己,为什么你还会觉得快乐呢?大概是因为你在失去的时候,你把他的气质和微笑都赚回来了。
幸福很单纯,所以要很单纯的人才容易获得。
真爱就是不轻言放弃。
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Relationships work best when they are balance...
+ Never explain yourself to anyone.
Because the person who likes you doesnt need it, and the person who dislike you
doesnt believe it...
+ Whn you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free.
Whn you keep saying you have no time, then you'll nvr hav time.
Whn you keep saying you wil do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow never come..
+ When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices.
* Go back To sleep and dream or
* wake up and chase those dreams..
+ We make them cry who care for us. We cry for those who never care for us. And we care for those who never care for us.
This is the truth of Life..its starange, but true...Once you realise this, it's never too late to change...
+ Dont make promise when you are in joy..
Dont reply when you are sad..
Dont make decision when you are angry...
* Think Twice..act Wise...
+ Time is like a river. You cannot touch the same water twice,Because the flow has passed will never pass again.
Enjoy the moment of life....
loves the quotes above....
Sunday, June 28, 2009
I WISH YOU ENOUGH
Recently I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure. Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the mother said, 'I love you and I wish you enough'. The daughter replied, 'Mom, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Mom'.
They kissed and the daughter left. The mother walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see she wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on her privacy but she welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?'
'Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this forever good-bye?'
'I am old and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral,' she said..
'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough'. May I ask what that means? '.
She began to smile. 'That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone'.. She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail and she smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I wish you enough', we want the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them'. Then turning toward me, she shared the following as if she were reciting it from memory.
I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.
I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.
She then began to cry and walked away.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them but then an entire life to forget them.
dear frens...
i wish u enough...
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
雨停下的天空. 灰的更加老旧.
你说你不懂为何在这时牵手.
我晒干了承诺. 灰的更加懵懂.
就算做事做错也只是怕错过
在一起走. 分开了走.
是不是说没有做完的梦最痛.
你若退后. 我能承受.
在最后的出口. 在爱过哪儿才有.
能不能给我一首歌的时间.
紧紧的把那拥抱变成永远.
在我的怀里. 不用太多失眠.
如果你想忘记我也能适应.
能不能给我一首歌的时间.
把故事听到最后才说再见.
你送我的眼泪. 让他留在雨天.
如果你怀疑一心的依然勇气当作鄙夷...
被淋湿的天空. 灰的更加老旧.
你说你不懂我为何在这时牵手
我晒干了承诺. 灰的狠冲动
就算做事做错也只是怕错过
在一起走. 分开了走.
是不是说没有做完的梦最痛.
你若退后. 我能承受.
在最后的出口. 在爱过哪儿才有.
能不能给我一首歌的时间.
紧紧的把那拥抱变成永远.
在我的怀里. 不用太多失眠.
如果你想忘记我也能适应.
能不能给我一首歌的时间.
把歌词听到最后再说再见.
你送我的眼泪. 让他留在雨天.
如果你怀疑一心的依然勇气当作鄙夷...
你说我不该不该不该在这时候说了我爱你.
要怎麽证明我没有说谎的力气.请告诉我.
而暂停算不算放弃.
我只有那一天的回忆...
能不能给我一首歌的时间.
紧紧的把那拥抱变成永远.
在我的怀里. 不用太多失眠.
如果你想忘记我也能适应.
能不能给我一首歌的时间.
哦.把歌词听到最后再说再见.
你送我的眼泪. 让他留在雨天.
哦.如果你怀疑一心的依然勇气当作鄙夷...
rap部分. 你说过我不该.
在这时说爱你. 要怎麽证明我没有力气.
可是暂停却算不算放弃.
我说我不该不该. 不该在这时才说爱你.
要怎麽证明我没有力气.
我只有一天回忆
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Introduction??
ha~~
wat kind of title is tis....
well..
tis wil the 1st blog i type after entering UM more thn 1 month..
dunno wat 2 type 4 my 1st blog, so..jz crap ba...ha~
sitting down in front of the laptop in my room, C 110,Kolej 4..
lots of assgmt next 2 me...
bt lazy 2 do..
haiz...
being here makes my life so fun til i gotta control myself for not forgetting wat's a student's responsible is..
swt...
pls: Jz crapping around 4 my 1st blog post~~
Ignore me ba....since i'm so low profile..haha~~


